If you want to define the problem in order to find the solution, the best way would be to come clean about the problem. Take your time and talk but most importantly, be prepared to listen.And always remember that complaining about something is not the same as defining the problem clearly. It will not be easy but it is for the greater good.
With every relationship comes two things, love and problems.
So, the first step towards the resolution is to define the problem and immediately find the adequate solution.
Finding a solution is not only about resolving the problem, it is about developing that sense of a teamwork which will eventually bring you closer to your loved one.
"Part of being in a long term relationship means that you spend more time with your partner and you become comfortable with him or her," Bennett says.
"This also means that some of the original excitement and newness will fade.